My husband said he had been on multiple sites for a year, and until I messaged him at the end of January 2017 he had never really found anyone who was everything he had asked God for in a woman.
I messaged him after a couple of days of being on Christian Connection, not thinking he would ever message me back. He did, and now over 7 months later here we are married! He and I both agree that the way that Christian Connection does its matching system is by far and away better than the majority of the other Christian-centered dating sites. We had both been on the same sites, but until I had found this one we never ever even matched on those other sites.
Our number one tip is to message, message, message; try to ask about things that are listed in any of the categories on their profile page. Also, don't just empty your email spam folder. My original message was sent to his spam folder, but by the grace of the Holy Spirit, he actually looked before emptying!