Neither John or I believed we would really meet someone with whom we could have a lasting relationship. I normally don't respond to those who write without a photo. John thought that his photo was on but must have pressed the wrong button. He was local, that is, an hour's drive away. We shared about 3 emails, and then he invited me for coffee at a venue midway between us. I thought 'why not? I walked into the coffee shop, saw him, and knew immediately. In my head I said, 'He'll do'. 9 weeks later we were married, and loving every minute. Thank you to Christian Connection. It is worth persevering.