We met, we got married, some other stuff happened in the meantime...
It took us a few months to finally meet in person, we were both away, but turns out we were both away in the same place! 18 months later we were engaged and 18 months after that we thought it best to legitimise our puppy with a small 2020 lockdown wedding.
Don't get down if you don't find the right one straight away. Sometimes it's about being in the right place at the right time. All relationships require work, just because you are looking to "purchase" a spouse online, doesn't mean they come from the factory purpose built for you.
"Be the person you want, to want"- Andy Stanley, The New Rules for Love, Sex and Dating.